I have three, adult, adopted children, 3 grandchildren and had almost a 30-year relationship with my husband, Terry (deceased 24 years ago) who lived with a Spinal Cord Injury. I have family life experience with neurotrauma, FASD, mental health and addictions. Last year my eldest daughter died of a drug overdose. She struggled for 30 years with mental health and substance disorder. She had a history of childhood trauma and had at least 5 Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACE’s) before she came to live with us at age 4. She left behind one daughter aged 25 who was privately adopted and 2 sons ages 12 and 10, who now live with me.
They have all been diagnosed with FASD and ADHD. My 12-year-old grandson is currently seeing a therapist for grief and loss, suicidal ideation, and other mental health/emotional struggles. Both my grandsons have been exposed to 8 out of 10 ACE’s. We have been very fortunate to access services quickly.